SHOPPING GUIDE | How to Shop for *Fine* Jewelry Online

There’s no shortage of jewelry brands on Instagram, many of them heavily advertising some variation of classic hoop/stud/ring and fine layering necklace combination. The Instagram photos make it hard not to click-to-shop, and each design somehow looks so dainty, delicate, and oh-so-perfectly made.

The reality is that many of these e-commerce jewelry sites are style over substance. Some brands genuinely care about their product and product quality, but others are far more interested in making a quick buck. (And then there are also the brands that really care about their product, but cost upwards of half a month’s rent...but that’s another story)

To take the plunge and hit “Complete Checkout” only to receive a necklace with a chain so flimsy that it breaks after a week; earrings that start rusting after a few wears; or rings that just seem, well, cheap is incredibly frustrating, to say the least. So, how do you decide who to buy from? Here are some tips below:

  • Look for material composition in the product description

    If a brand truly prides itself on high quality products, they’re likely to (and should be) up front about what they’re putting in their products! That doesn’t mean all brands that don’t list product compositions should be excluded. After all, it takes time to physically add this to every product page and many independent artists as well as “minimal” style sites may not provide this information. If it’s not on the site, reach out and ask via email or social media. If they’re not willing to answer, don’t buy.

Above | Material composition description from  Mejuri

Above | Material composition description from Mejuri

  • Remember that expensive does not always mean high quality, but too cheap does many poor quality

    Unfortunately there are tons of expensive jewelry brands that charge upwards of $200-300 on products but still choose to use unplated brass or other tarnishable/low-quality metals. While a high price tag does not guarantee quality, it’s also true that a $4 pair of earrings is not likely to be well-made (or ethically made, for that matter).

  • Find a Stockist/Pop Up/Showroom

    While Mejuri products are available exclusively on their site (and to try in their showrooms), many e-commerce jewelry sellers organize pop ups or have brick-and-mortar retailers that carry their products. This information should be readily available on the brand’s site and/or social media channels. If it isn’t, it never hurts to shoot a quick email to ask.

Above Left |  TUZA  (also isn’t this vagina necklace fabulous?) has physical showroom/stores in NYC and Mexico City.

Above Left | TUZA (also isn’t this vagina necklace fabulous?) has physical showroom/stores in NYC and Mexico City.

Above Right | Their products are also available at various stockists with brick-and-mortar locations, such as Brooklyn-based boutique  The Break .

Above Right | Their products are also available at various stockists with brick-and-mortar locations, such as Brooklyn-based boutique The Break.

  • Buy it to try it!

    This is by far the most foolproof method. Try it for yourself! Check what the store’s return policy is before you go down this route. If returns are free and easy (i.e. the store provides a prepaid label), this is a no-brainer. If you have to pay for return shipping or can only receive a refund in the form of store credit, make sure you would be ok with paying the shipping fee and/or buying something else from the site.

  • Read reviews

    When available reviews (blog or video) can be immensely helpful. Of course, do this with a grain of salt. Many reviews that show up immediately through a quick Google search are sponsored by the brand itself (because of how SEO and the blogging business works). Just because a person has received product and/or payment in exchange for a review doesn’t mean what they’ve written is dishonest, but they are very likely to leave out any negative details. There are many people who write reviews without receiving any type of compensation, but it can be more difficult to find their articles through a search engine.

  • Check the brand’s social media channels

    Are there a lot of complaints about delivery/customer service/quality issues? How does the company respond? Do customers seem happy with their purchases? While some brand’s Instagrams can be flooded with influencer posts, I find Twitter and Facebook to be prime platforms for checking out customer complaints.

  • Ask others on social media or secondhand clothing apps!

    Reach out to people who have tagged the brand. Often times people are extremely receptive to these questions and I’ve had people ask me about the quality of certain products. Keep it short and be polite but direct about what you want to know. You can also give a shot on Depop/Poshmark/similar apps and ask people that are selling the brand’s products.

Do you have any other ideas for how to choose between online jewelry retailers? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!


Havana is something of a hidden gem, filled with incredible architecture, rich history and - contrary to popular belief - great food. As with any other city my favorite thing to do was simply to wander the streets and soak in the sights. Here are my top ten must-see’s/do’s/and eat’s:

1 | Museo Nacional de Bellas Artes de Cuba

This museum has an incredible collection and it is worth spending at least an hour or two perusing the exhibitions. There are two buildings, one dedicated solely to Cuban art (Sede de Arte Cubano) and the other to global art (Sede de Arte Universal). We chose to only visit the Cuban art building, and for me it was definitely the right decision.

Hours: Tuesday to Saturday 9AM to 5PM | Sunday 10AM to 2 PM
Admission: 5 CUC (Free for Children under 12)

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2 | Walk down the Malecón

The Malecon (officially Avendia de Maceo) is a 5 mile-long promenade along the waterfront that stretches from Old Havana to Vedado. On particularly hot days I would suggest taking the walk around sunrise or around sunset as there’s not much shade along the esplanade. There’s great light for photos at golden hour.

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3 | Wander through the streets of Old Havana

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4 | Take a cooking class!

We signed up for a cooking class on AirBnB prior to leaving for Cuba and I would highly recommend it. There are several options avalilable on AirBnB and we chose one that cost $29 per person (inclusive of all supplies) for 2.5 hours. Including Matt and I there were about 8 people in the class, and we learned to make traditional Cuban food including friend plantains and mojitos. The class size was ideal as everyone had the opportunity to participate hands-on in the cooking. Everything was absolutely DELICIOUS; the chef was super sweet (she didn’t speak any English, but her friend acted as a translator); and it was really cool to be able to see a casa particular (they also rent out the rooms in the home where the class takes place).

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5 | Eat at Habana61

We came twice for dinner as it was so good. Although we didn’t make reservations either time, I would recommend making one (you can make a reservation here) as it did get quite busy during peak dinner hours.

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6 | Dine at La Guarida

La Guarida is a charming paladar - a privately owned restaurant - that has been open since 1996. We arrived just as they opened for lunch and were able to get a spot, but reservations are typically recommend for dinner and can be made here. I had the rabbit along with a piña colada, and would highly recommend both.

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7 | Fábrica de Arte Cubano

FAC is a cultural center that is a little bit of everything (a “laboratory of interdisciplinary creation”), simultaneously acting as an event space, bar/club, exhibition space, restaurant and shop. Focused on supporting contemporary artists in Cuba, when we went on Friday night the club was in full swing with art exhibitions, a fashion show and multiple dance floors.

Upon arrival you’ll be given a stamp card. Do NOT lose this card! There was not much of a line when we arrived around 9PM, but by the time we left around midnight the club was extremely busy and the line was long.

Hours: Thursday to Sunday 8PM to 3AM
Address: Calle 26, Esquina 11, Vedado. La Habana, Cuba
Admission: 2-5 CUC*
(*reported by patrons as admission is not officially listed - I believe we paid 5 CUC)

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8 | Take a day trip to Viñales

There’s no good way to describe Viñales other than a place of prehistoric beauty. The landscape is incredibly unique and it does look like dinosaurs might appear at any moment.

While we chose to do the day trip through a travel company we found online before leaving for our trip, you can definitely find a driver to take you once you arrive in Havana. That’s probably the cheapest option but we preferred having a full guided tour as we weren’t planning to stay overnight. If I ever make it back to Havana I’ll definitely opt to stay at a casa particular in Viñales for at least one night.

That being said the tour was fantastic and our tour guide - who was from Viñales - was super knowledgable about the region and very friendly. The trip included visiting a lookout point, a horse ride, a trip to a cigar factory, and a private lunch at a farm where the farmers taught us how to roll cigars.

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Hotel Los Jazmines, which was located right by the lookout point

Hotel Los Jazmines, which was located right by the lookout point

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The cigar factory

The cigar factory

Trying a cigar

Trying a cigar

9 | Check out the Camara Oscura

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10 | Take a dance or art class

We signed up for a stained glass class on AirBnB.

CUBA GUIDE | Tips for Traveling to Cuba as a U.S. Citizen

Is That Even Legal?

When I first told friends and family that I was going to Cuba last year, at least half asked, “Is that even legal?!?” The answer is technically no, but in reality…yes. Traveling to Cuba for “touristic purposes” is still prohibited for Americans. However, there are 12 categories of authorized travel and many of those with a more leisurely mindset - my friend, Matt, and I included - go under the category of “Support for the Cuban People” (more on this later).

When it comes to travel I generally have a very relaxed, “show-up-and-figure-it-out” attitude. After reading a few articles though, it seemed like there would be quite a bit of red tape involved and I felt intimidated. However, I’m happy to report that it’s really not scary at all!

First off, the idea that you will not be able to access the Internet in Cuba is a myth. No, it is not as readily available as it is in many countries and you will not be able to purchase a SIM card with data. However, you can purchase Internet access at pretty much any hotel in Havana’s city center (though you will only be able to access it within the hotel). Before we went I even wrote down a few hotel names that were identified by some blogs as having internet, but when we got there we ended up just walking into two random hotels and asking if internet access was available for purchase (we only went to the second one because the first had sold out of the access cards for the day already - ha!). You can purchase access cards that are sold in hour-long increments. Remember to turn your Wi-Fi connection off when you’re done surfing the web as whatever you don’t use you can go back and use at any time during your trip. I don’t remember the exact cost but it was pretty cheap and I spent less than $5 USD over four days. If you’re staying at an AirBnB or a casa particular (private homestay), you may also ask your host if Internet access is available. Our AirBnB hostess had a guy she could call with a portable hotspot, but by the time he came around we’d already gone to the hotel.

Secondly - I am speaking from my personal experience and this may not be the case for everyone - at no time was I questioned about my plans in Cuba. Not when we left the US, nor when we came back. That being said, for all intensive purposes please do make sure you are prepared. Also (and this is very important) if you’re splitting costs with anyone and paying through Venmo, do NOT write “Cuba” in the “What’s it for?” section. As my bank had better exchange rates than Matt’s I exchanged USD for Euros/GBP for the both of us and Matt Venmo-ed me for it and wrote “Cuba”. This resulted in the money being held by Venmo until they were able to get in touch with us to clear up the purposes for the charge.

Ground Rules

Like I said (and hopefully somewhat convincingly so!) it’s really not a scary process. If you don’t remember anything else, please just keep these five ground rules in mind:

  1. Bring CASH! (Euros or British Pounds will have a better exchange rate than USD. More on this later)

  2. Write down the address of your residence (AirBnB, hotel, whatever it may be). You’ll most likely be taking a taxi from the airport and you won’t be able to check your email to see what the address is.

  3. Print our your itinerary (if traveling under “Support for the Cuban People”)

  4. Keep all records including itineraries and receipts (Don’t be surprised if you don’t get any receipts - the only ones I got were at the airport. Also just FYI you’re supposed to keep these records for five years.)

  5. Avoid all transactions with a GAESA-owned (military-owned) business

The Lowdown


There are actually two types of currency in Cuba: the CUC (Cuban Convertible Peso) and the CUP (Cuban Peso Nacional). When you exchange money you will most likely get CUC and this is all you need. This is the “tourist currency” and you may receive CUP as change. Though having some CUP is sometimes recommended for street vendors etc, a lot of places actually only accept CUC. I only had CUC the entire time and didn’t have any problems.

When traveling internationally the best exchange rates are typically through credit cards or from ATM withdrawals at the destination. However, US cards will not work. I repeat, you will not be able to use US debit or credit cards. So bring enough cash for your entire trip. You don’t need to exchange it all at the beginning (and try not to exchange too much so you don’t have to lose more money to exchange it back), but definitely plan have some back-up just in case.

COUNT YOUR MONEY. We exchanged money at the airport (which is a good place to do it), and even there Matt was shortchanged by around $50USD. If you do need to exchange money during your trip (which we did not do), most people recommend doing so at hotels or cadecas (official currency exchange houses). The exchange rates will likely be worse though, so keep that in mind. Additionally, in addition to the standard 3% currency exchange fee, exchanging USD incurs an extra 10% tax cost. This means a total 13% cost, which is extremely high. As I mentioned before I exchanged money for Euros/GBP prior to my trip. This may or may not make sense for you depending on what your bank charges for currency exchange fees. Ideally, if I had planned my trip earlier I would’ve withdrawn extra money from the ATM when I was in Europe.

I believe I chose to exchange around $400USD for our five-day trip. This did not include lodging, as we already had our AirBnB, but I planned for all food as well as the cost for a roughly $180 day-trip to Viñales (definitely on the higher side, but we just wanted to have the plan set before we went). Also, I am someone who likes to buy souvenirs and little knick-knacks. This ended up being just enough for me.

What Else Should I Bring?

Needless to say, unlike in NYC there isn’t a Duane Reade or CVS on every street corner in Havana. I would strongly recommend bringing:

  • Toiletries (whatever it is you need - shampoo/conditioner, body wash, lotion, toothpaste, floss, etc.)

  • Sunscreen

  • Bug repellant

  • Basic medication (i.e. Tylenol/Advil/Pepto-Bismol)

  • A spare roll of toilet paper/packs of tissue

  • Your itinerary (if traveling in “Support of the Cuban People”)

  • An umbrella

While the AirBnB we stayed at provided us with body wash and shampoo, the bottles were extremely small (they seemed to be swiped from random hotels) and we did have to ask for them when we arrived. In regards to medication, at one point we had to look for Vaseline and tried a pharmacy and a few other stores but were not able to find it. We were able to find an alternative, but it was quite expensive and seemed of questionable origin.

Traveling in Support of the Cuban People

If you are traveling in “Support of the Cuban People”, you must keep a schedule that reflects the promotion of independent activity intended to strengthen civil society in Cuba. What that really means is just that you must provide a full-time itinerary of activities (six hours per non-travel weekday) that fall under “Support for the Cuban People”. These include but are not limited to:

  • Meeting with local business people, artists, and tobacco manufacturers

  • Exploring independent museums (there are some very interesting ones in Havana), art shows or independent markets

  • Taking cultural classes (i.e. traditional dance, cooking, art)

  • Engaging with musicians at a show

  • Discussing Cuban society with locals

Before you get scared about providing ten-page fully outlined itinerary, let me just say that at no time when I left the US or returned from Cuba was I questioned at the airport. Not a single soul asked to see my itinerary (which I kind of wished they did, after all the work we put in you know). That being said, for all intensive purposes, please do make sure you are prepared and have your itinerary available if you are asked. Here’s my travel itinerary as an example. Feel free to use and repurpose as needed.

Getting Around

We pretty much just walked everywhere and took cabs when necessary. The cab ride to our AirBnB from the airport was about $25USD and our AirBnB was roughly a 35 minute walk from the city center, which was not very close but it was a nice walk that allowed us to wander through the colorful streets. At night we usually took cabs back to the apartment out of exhaustion and for safety reasons. Though I didn’t necessarily feel unsafe at any point in time, it’s always important to be alert while traveling especially when you stick out like a sore thumb (and as an Asian woman that happens rather frequently).

There are buses available and you can take shared taxis for $1. I’m sure they’re not difficult to access once you figure out the system but to be honest I didn’t particularly want to deal with figuring it out as private cabs were not too expensive. I believe we paid around $5-$9 for rides ranging from 15-30 minutes. If you’re not sure how much you should be paying ask your AirBnB host/your hotel how much a cab to your destination should cost. Don’t forget to bargain with your driver before you get in the car - it definitely helps if you’re able to do so in Spanish.

What Can I Bring Back?

As an American, there are actually surprisingly few restrictions on what you can bring back from Cuba. You can bring souvenirs like clothes, CDs, jewelry, coffee, etc; art (an unlimited amount); alcohol (I believe the official limit is 1L duty-free); and tobacco (this includes up to 100 cigars). The total value of everything you bring back should be less than $800 and for personal use only. I would highly recommend picking up a bottle or two of Havana Club rum after security check on your way back. My only regret was only getting one bottle. It’s so cheap and so good!

You cannot bring back (but honestly - for the most part you can’t really be bringing these back from anywhere anyways) animals or animal products; fruits and vegetables; chemicals; drugs or firearms.

Where Can I Buy Cigars?

Don't buy cigars on the street or in outdoor markets as they may not be authentic. Buy them in licensed cigar shops or directly from farmers. Fresh cigars from farms are great and definitely worth trying, but they typically do not last as long.

Other Interesting Things to Keep in Mind:

  • You should always tip in restaurants, bars, and taxis, but don’t overtip. 5% is sufficient and 10% is extremely generous. Any more is considered flaunting your wealth.

  • Don’t wear anything expensive or flashy, including jewelry. I was wearing a simple small gold necklace and tiny gold hoops, and my AirBnB hostess warned me to take them off. I did end up wearing a little bit of jewelry during the day when we were shooting, but in general I tried not to do this.

  • Don’t be afraid to ask people for help but do not accept help if a strange solicits you.

  • Don't throw toilet paper in the toilet but in the trash can if available.

  • Don't drink tap water or anything with ice.

  • Only exchange money at official cadecas, the airport, banks or hotels. COUNT what you get!!! Matt was short-changed at the airport exchange.


  • Don't spit and try not to blow your nose in public as it’s considered offensive.

NYC Guide | Brooklyn Bridge Sunrise

Brooklyn, New York | Brooklyn Bridge

Sunrise is undoubtedly the best time to walk down the Brooklyn Bridge. Typically packed with throngs of tourists, locals, runners and bikers alike, this is perhaps the only time (with natural light, that is) to take a few snaps without 50 strangers in your shot and a biker shouting at you to get out of the f*cking bike lane.


We made the journey on an unseasonably warm winter morning. As luck would have it, it was about 50°F (10°C). That may not sound very cozy for those from warmer parts of the world, but when winds can make it feel like 10°F (-8°C) on any given day, that at least makes it a bearable walk.


To be quite frank the sunrise wasn’t at all what I’d expected - no massive, glowing golden-orange orb in the distance, no pink and orange and purple sky. But it was magical in a totally unexpected way - buildings all along the lower Manhattan skyline gently bathed in a warm gold unique to 7am in the morning. My conclusion? It was absolutely stunning and well worth the early morning (and I am not a morning person). I’m already planning a trip back for some more snowy sunrise shots!

Tips for Walking the Bridge at Sunrise:

  • Plan to arrive 15-30 min before the actual time of sunrise. When we went at the end of December sunrise was around 7:20 am - early, but definitely not impossibly so.

  • Right before heading out in the morning (as in when you wake up to the alarm, not the day or night before), check that it is going to be sunny at least half an hour before and after sunrise. Weather predictions can change very quickly and if it’s too cloudy there won’t be much of a sunrise to see. We were going to go on Friday morning because it was forecasted to be sunny all day up until Thursday night, but when I checked again at 6:30am on Friday it was going to be cloudy from 7-9am.

  • There will still be some people on the bridge. We arrived just around sunrise and 30 minutes later the number of people increased significantly, so the earlier you can go the better!